Boyfriend logged into dating site
You decided to meet and on your first date things go great.
You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.
(we most likely frequent the same spots)I'd say you are not attracted to him enough.
As a side note, I had a guy message me several times and I never responded.
But he's still not going to want to let a woman get attached too fast, thinking she might end up going all stalker on him.
Long story short, it's a disrespect for boundaries.
You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.He instantly sent me another message and said if I am now single he'd love to meet up. This kind of thing has happened to me on occasion over the years -- someone who reeks of clinginess and desperation before we've ever even met up. My fear is if we meet up for a simple coffee, the stakes are so high now.I mean he's obsessed with some idea of who I am without even knowing me.Last week I was out with a friend and noticed a strange guy kept staring at me. When I got home, I had a message on the dating app saying "You look way better in person" and I recognized the guy as the I saw out earlier. I made the mistake of responding to him to say yes I saw him, but I'm not attracted to him and now he'll probably keep messaging me or worse try to talk to me if he sees me out again.