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I sighed heavily, shook my head in disbelief, then responded: Being a female Dominant, especially one who occasionally ventures online, is NOT an easy task. Having said this, I'm going to tell you in depth what most Dommes are looking for .
These men mistakenly feel that the only way women will be interested in accepting them, as their submissive, is if they show their submission constantly and strongly. Of course, I can't speak for every female Dominant - after all, there are those few who long to have a submissive who follows the example of my friendly internet suitor .but, for the most part, Dommes seek a partner who knows when to be a `submissive' and when to be a `companion.' Part of the problem many new (and some seasoned) male submissives experience is too much fantasy in their lives - mainly the S/m themed advertisements, the badly made domination films, and magazines that show vicious women manhandling their compliant and appreciative submissive males. Have you ever heard the saying `the sexiest organ is the brain? You don't have to be a Rhodes scholar, but being able to discuss something other than cbt is a huge plus! Submissives need to know the intricacies of both submission and Dominance just as well as Dominants do.
His posture is straight, his physical positions are held comfortably, and his face is serene but focused.
A self-confidant submissive has about him his own aura of control - and this adds not only to his worth, but also his Dominant's pride.
After all, a Domme seeks a partner who will never speak unless spoken to, never show his intellect, never look her in the eyes, and never, never, never wants to be treated as her equal. For many men, especially those who have never had a chance to venture out into BDSM society or clubs, these images are the real thing. After all - how else would a sub know if the Dominant is doing something incorrectly?
Here is a sample of my "dream" IM from a submissive male: :) Ok not quite .you get the point. Confidence, bearing, and the knowledge of WHEN to act submissive is equally important.
Your sense of caring should go beyond just your Domme ..empathy toward your fellow submissives and brothers and sisters in BDSM is very important.
It is also very important that you have a sense of caring about yourself.
A sub's life should be full and varied - not based only on serving - and a sub MUST recognize when their real-life responsibilities take precedence over their BDSM lives.He is sure of his value, comfortable of his worth, and displays his self-confidence with quiet pride, but never arrogance.He knows that when he makes mistakes, he will benefit from them by learning from them.Responsibility Submission is a position of responsibility!Very often, submissives have chores and rules assigned to them - and it is expected that the submissive be responsible and follow them.